“Three grand essentials to happiness in this life are something to do, something to love, and something to hope for.” – Joseph Addison An empty mind is a devil's workshop. When we have nothing worthwhile to do, our mind starts wandering around. Many times we end up recollecting something that we did not like in our past or we start imagining a future that we are anxious or worried about. In either case, we end up losing our peace of mind and happiness. To stay in the flow state or the state of complete engagement with the present we need to be occupied in doing something that holds our attention in such a way that we even lose the track of time. When I am writing an article on topics related to happiness, I usually find myself in such a state. I am sure you would also have your preferences for activities that help you feel completely engaged and happy. Love is a very beautiful and powerful emotion. We are always eager to sacrifice our time, money, comfort, and even life for someth...
"Who is the happiest of men? He who values the merits of others, and in their pleasure takes joy, even as though it were his own.", Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe. I got a new car and I was happy. The next week my neighbor got a new car, which was more expensive than mine and I was even more happier. Yes you got me, I am indeed lying about the happier part. Every time something better happens to others, while feeling happier for them, it is somehow difficult to feel happier for self too. The ingrained sense of competitiveness gives the feeling that somebody else has won the race. The invisible race that exists only in my own head. Compassion and empathy is most commonly referred in the context of understanding and feeling the sufferings of others in order to support them through their difficult times. When we put ourself in their shoes and feel their pain, we are bound to be more emphatic towards them. If we can learn to feel the pain of others, we should be able to l...
"Happiness is a by-product of an effort to make someone else happy", Gretta Brooker Palmer. There are various different ways in which we all seek happiness. Most of the time our efforts are focused on doing or buying things that we think will make us happy. In one of the research on happiness, people were asked about how much money they spend on themselves for bills, expenses, and gifts for self; and what they spent on others by way of gifts, donations, and charity. They were also asked to rate their happiness level. The outcome of this research showed that those who spent more on others also reported a higher level of happiness. Instead of focusing on making yourself happy, consider gifting happiness by doing or giving something to others. You will surely experience a higher level of happiness and satisfaction too. Let's learn to live a happier life and spread happiness together. Happiness Life Coach, Puneet Dhingra Here is a small effort to help everyone learn to be ha...
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